“STOP LETTING PEOPLE WHO DO SO LITTLE FOR YOU CONTROL SO MUCH OF YOUR MIND, FEELINGS and EMOTIONS”
25% of people are not going to like you anyway (these are the people who show up in your life to try to prove their own opinion of something that they have learned, so they spend their time trying to convince you that their opinion is more important or valuable than what you have learned on your own or through your life experience which is equally or if not just as important as their opinion. They will try to void out your free will with oppositions, opinions, direct put downs etc., Yup! Give them the ole “HIGH FIVE!” lol maybe even a “MERRY CHRISTMAS”
25% of people you can spend 50% of your time trying to convince them to like you. Why bother? Why waste your time? It is obvious that they are against you in the beginning, let them go find something else to nag about. trust me they will 🙂 Give them a “HIGH FIVE” “HAPPY BIRTHDAY!” “MERRY CHRISTMAS!” the gift that keeps on giving and walk away.
The other 50% never looks down on anybody else, or tries to go in direct opposition because they are the ones helping you up, (Jesse Jackson) encouraging you, motivating you, supporting you and believing in you. They know that this is your journey and this too will pass, but they allow you through love, constant support and friendship and having faith that you will make it through.
“It’s Nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice” Author Unknown